These sites have the broadest appeal and generally the largest membership bases.

Below, I’ve plotted the distribution of how long each man lasted before orgasming (averaged over all his encounters).

The page is splattered with motivational quotes, typically in black lettering against a white background, and say things like: “Be one of the reasons why she wants more in life” and “If you have to lie to keep it, it’s not yours to keep.” Canty’s ethos is made clear in his site’s tagline, which reads: “Inspiring better men.

Keep it safe and sane with a meeting in a public place, such as a restaurant or museum, and avoid going home with someone you do not know.