Dating an older guy with kids
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For instance, if a guy says something like “I like you so much” or whatever during the early phases, he very well might mean it, but he also wants to see how you’ll react.
As I’ve said time and time again: When a man says he doesn’t want a relationship with you (for any reason), believe him! It makes me sad to see, but there are a lot of relationships I see where the guy is insecure and wants to make sure the woman likes him.
He does all sorts of things to woo her and win her over, but simultaneously, he (for whatever reason) does not want to be in an exclusive relationship.
So as soon as the woman declares that she really likes him, she assumes it means that they’re headed towards a relationship.
that doesn’t mean he’ll lose interest in you, but if he already had some insecurities about whether or not you are into him, this will stir up his insecurities further and he’ll keep doing and trying things to “make you like him” so he can feel secure. So, for starters, I would say that the more insecure he is about you liking him, the more of this stuff he’s going to say until he’s convinced that you really like him a lot.
Once he believes that you really like him, it’s at that point he’ll relax and start being himself.
What if they’re not that into me and I end up making a fool of myself falling for someone when they don’t feel the same way? It may seem hard to believe, but in the beginning of a relationship, a guy will try to feel out how much a woman likes him …
especially if he feels some amount of insecurity about how much she’s into him.“Dropping the mask” is something I talk about extensively in the article link below…After that guy determines that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.The guy, if he hasn’t already, starts talking about how he doesn’t want to be in a relationship for some reason.the guy change his mind if you’re going to stick around regardless of whether or not you’re in an explicitly committed, exclusive relationship?He already knows you’re not going to go out with other guys.