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I was ready to give him back my best smile and say, “Forget it, sorry”.
I was not drinking much, as I was on diet, and don’t like drinking a lot of alcohol, anyway. I remember I was having a good day--by this I mean a day when your hair is perfect without effort, your skin shines, and with a little make up you look great.As usual, I was staying at my mother’s house, and my friends were all staying in a posh hotel 10 km away from the town centre.The three of us (2 women, 1 man) went in one car, the classier one, not mine of course, to have dinner at the port.If this doesn’t sound like a plot straight out of the movies I’m not sure what is. I know this is a real issue but to assume this based on ethnicity is absurd. However, child abductions occur by men (and women) of every race and ethnicity. I’m pretty sure he’s got his hands full with just me.Being Arabic does not predispose someone to engaging in this type of behavior. Arab Muslim men are permitted to have up to four wives in many countries. In most other countries, including Morocco, the permission of the first wife must be in place before a second marriage can occur, not to mention he must prove he can financially provide for two homes.I’m fed up with making conversation with uninteresting people who feel free to come to talk to you just because it’s supposed that if you’re a pretty girl in a disco, you’re looking forward to meet all the men in the place. It was funny because I did not realize he was standing beside me until my friends said aloud, “What does he want?
” So I turned and looked at who they were pointing to, and he came to me and smiled.Never mind that most people lumped everyone who is of Arabic descent into the same category and culture. Are there men who are abusive and happen to be Arab? Are there men who are abuse and are of every other nationality in the world? One’s culture does not single them out for behavioral traits. I’ve never been a slave to anyone and I certainly have never been beholden to serve my husband. I couldn’t believe someone actually assumed this and verbalized the idea to me.I guess it just goes to show how far fetched some people’s ideas can be. This is a very real concern for some people, and I don’t disagree that it’s important to be vigilant.Before one gets to the marriage permission process, there are many other relationship stages at play.Some relationships never reach that stage, nor should they necessarily.There is a lot of baggage that comes with marrying an Arab man.