Rules in dating girls
Rules in dating girls - reasonable dating rules
Girls and boys of teenaged age can do service work, meet in study groups, work together in clubs of mutual interest.In other words, they can live life in a natural way with one another.
In other words, they’ll be better able to handle it.This is what WE are currently choosing to do in OUR home with OUR reasoning behind it. Feel free to mosey on to the next blog on your list without further Mean comments, remarks that we are ‘sooo behind the times’ are boring and will likely be deleted.If you have something sincere to say, by all means say it, or email me, but I will not tolerate ridicule, which is what I got from a number of my college alma mater “connections” last time I posted for young men “Mom’s Rules for Getting the Girl”. We have six daughters, currently three teenagers, one in her early twenties and the others are 11 and 8.These social situations are healthy and normal, and encourage girls to see young men as people and friends first, not just as romantic interests.Taking dating off the table until they are older frees up the girls to be themselves in these new situations, instead of worrying if he will ‘ask me out’ or want to ‘go steady’, or ‘go out’, or whatever the current exclusive terminology is.In order to do this effectively you need to be honest with yourself, and filter out the men who will waste your time - even when you are tempted by your emotions, pride or biology to do otherwise.
in Catholic parent, children, Christianity, dance, dating, Family, get the girl, Important family issues, life, love, manners, parenting, Raising daughters, Relationships, Uncategorized ≈ 29 Comments (Part II begins here) Before I get started and offer some teenaged dating rules for girls, I want to say a couple things. I’ve been asked about this topic many times, when I talk to mom’s groups, in casual conversations, and in emails. I am sharing here what is now morphing into our own family’s dating rules for girls, either formally or informally.Let’s face it- there are only two options to romantic boy/girl relationships- one- they will end up in marriage. The former is far less likely to happen than the latter, especially the younger the people are who are involved.For that reason, later dating is just a better statistical odd for healthy emotional development. That’s the motivation of this post- to answer the people who have asked me the question of what we do.But I’m not posting this to argue or try to prove that I am right and that there’s only one way to do this. If you don’t like these rules, or if you vehemently disagree with them, or if you think they are stupid, or if you would just choose something different so be it, that’s FINE!What’s more, and along the same lines, a girl’s positive relationship with her brothers also helps her develop healthy personal and social relationships with males, which helps later on in her life.